一、正確認識性用品

人們應當消除(chu)對(dui)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品的(de)(de)認識誤(wu)區(qu)。生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活中(zhong)有人誤(wu)認為(wei)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品僅(jin)僅(jin)是為(wei)了滿足(zu)自慰，會傷害伴(ban)侶(lv)的(de)(de)感情和傷害自己的(de)(de)身體(ti)等。事實上，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品的(de)(de)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)有諸多(duo)好處。在生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)理發育成熟而又沒有性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶(lv)的(de)(de)情況(kuang)下(xia)，使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品是正常的(de)(de)、緩解性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)饑(ji)渴、釋放(fang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)緊張(zhang)的(de)(de)一(yi)種(zhong)方式(shi)，能(neng)(neng)提供性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)享受(shou)，避免(mian)不良性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)行(xing)為(wei)，減少性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)病傳播。如果夫(fu)妻一(yi)起共(gong)同使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)，可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)增(zeng)添性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活情趣，密切伴(ban)侶(lv)關系，增(zeng)加彼此信(xin)任，提升兩人的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活質量。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲較強者，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)侶(lv)不能(neng)(neng)滿足(zu)時(shi)，借(jie)以(yi)(yi)釋放(fang)多(duo)余性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)能(neng)(neng)量從而穩定(ding)相互關系。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功(gong)能(neng)(neng)較差者可(ke)(ke)通過(guo)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)強烈刺激，影響性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)閾值，達到(dao)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮，獲(huo)得性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足(zu)。當性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活未能(neng)(neng)盡興時(shi)，可(ke)(ke)借(jie)助性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)刺激、輔(fu)助，達到(dao)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮。而處于絕經期(qi)的(de)(de)女性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)通過(guo)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品保(bao)持陰道(dao)彈性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，避免(mian)小便(bian)失禁和其他疾病。對(dui)男性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)陽痿、女性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)冷感患者可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)具(ju)進(jin)行(xing)誘(you)導或(huo)治(zhi)療。配(pei)偶一(yi)方有病或(huo)致殘、寡居而無法進(jin)行(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活者，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)是自慰工具(ju)。

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二、正確使用性用品

不(bu)可否認性(xing)(xing)用品能帶(dai)來不(bu)同程度的(de)(de)快感乃至性(xing)(xing)高(gao)潮，的(de)(de)確解決(jue)了部分(fen)人(ren)的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)壓抑、性(xing)(xing)煩惱(nao)和(he)性(xing)(xing)焦慮(lv)。但它(ta)畢(bi)竟只是(shi)輔助工具(ju)，不(bu)能完全代(dai)替性(xing)(xing)伴侶，更不(bu)能代(dai)替伴侶之間的(de)(de)愛撫和(he)溫存。過分(fen)依(yi)賴器具(ju)，會(hui)導致對(dui)正常的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)生活逐漸(jian)產生厭惡情(qing)緒。如果(guo)頻繁(fan)使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)用品，或使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)用品強度過大，容易引(yin)起(qi)陰(yin)道(dao)生殖器損傷、出血(xue)和(he)感染。如果(guo)青春年少者過早使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)用品，容易產生前(qian)列(lie)腺(xian)炎、性(xing)(xing)功(gong)能障礙、性(xing)(xing)欲下降(jiang)等一(yi)系列(lie)后遺癥。

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三、節制使用性用品

不要太過頻繁使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)，以免導致身體‘性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)奮(fen)”敏感度下(xia)降，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)喚起(qi)會越(yue)來越(yue)難(nan)。長期、經常使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)，有的過分追(zhui)求刺激、快(kuai)感而(er)挑選那(nei)些稀奇古怪的性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)，并長期過度性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)奮(fen)和強(qiang)烈(lie)(lie)(lie)刺激，導致身體已經習(xi)慣(guan)了強(qiang)刺激，反而(er)對一般性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的正常性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)(huo)刺激難(nan)起(qi)反應，必須一次比一次刺激得更夸張(zhang)、猛(meng)烈(lie)(lie)(lie)才能讓人體興(xing)奮(fen)起(qi)來。因此，不能沉(chen)迷于性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)的強(qiang)烈(lie)(lie)(lie)刺激，要適可而(er)止，盡量克制(zhi)自己(ji)，把(ba)注意力分散在(zai)工(gong)作或者其(qi)他(ta)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)(huo)愛好(hao)上。雖然使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)以增加性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)(huo)的趣(qu)味(wei)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，但(dan)是專家認為，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能正常、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)(huo)和諧的人并不需(xu)要使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)就可獲得性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿(man)足。

四、正確選擇性用品

要(yao)選擇合(he)格的、優質的性用(yong)(yong)(yong)品，并注(zhu)意衛生。面(mian)對市場上(shang)奇形怪狀的性用(yong)(yong)(yong)品，一定要(yao)選擇那些合(he)格的、知名度(du)高的優質產品，如(ru)有合(he)格證、質地柔(rou)軟、表面(mian)光潔(jie)，事后(hou)要(yao)清洗干凈，并定期(qi)消毒以保(bao)證衛生。性用(yong)(yong)(yong)品僅限個人(ren)和(he)伴侶共同使用(yong)(yong)(yong)，不得(de)借用(yong)(yong)(yong)或(huo)(huo)轉讓；不可以放(fang)在陰暗(an)潮濕或(huo)(huo)小孩看到和(he)拿到的地方。

五、協商使用性用品

最好(hao)能(neng)雙方(fang)經過溝通，形(xing)成(cheng)(cheng)共識，獲得對(dui)方(fang)的支持(chi)一(yi)起(qi)共同使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)。性用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)可以(yi)給(gei)人(ren)帶來高潮，但不(bu)能(neng)給(gei)人(ren)帶來愛撫，所以(yi)它(ta)根(gen)本不(bu)能(neng)取代伴侶(lv)(lv)，如果自己決定(ding)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)，會(hui)給(gei)伴侶(lv)(lv)造成(cheng)(cheng)心理壓力，有的會(hui)心生厭惡，反而(er)會(hui)影響夫妻(qi)關系。因此相互(hu)溝通，相互(hu)體諒，相互(hu)支持(chi)，最好(hao)能(neng)協商一(yi)致共同使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)。