"點(dian)“姓(xing)是(shi)1991年在(zai)江蘇南京一家新創(chuang)的(de)姓(xing)氏。該姓(xing)氏據說(shuo)《太平(ping)圖話(hua)姓(xing)氏綜》上就(jiu)有收錄,但歷(li)史上”點(dian)“是(shi)“點(dian)”的(de)繁(fan)體(ti)字。
據載(zai),在1991年(nian)江蘇(su)蘇(su)州的一(yi)個(ge)典(dian)型的“421家(jia)庭(ting)”中,出現了姓“點(dian)”的孩子(zi),這個(ge)“點(dian)”姓也一(yi)般被認為(wei)是(shi)1991年(nian)所知人數(shu)最少(shao)的姓。
關于這個(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還有一(yi)(yi)段耐(nai)人(ren)(ren)尋(xun)味的(de)(de)(de)故事。在(zai)這個(ge)(ge)(ge)“421家庭”中有爺(ye)(ye)(ye)爺(ye)(ye)(ye)、奶(nai)奶(nai)、外(wai)公(gong)、外(wai)婆四(si)(si)位老(lao)人(ren)(ren)和一(yi)(yi)對夫妻(qi)、一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)小孩(hai)。爺(ye)(ye)(ye)爺(ye)(ye)(ye)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,奶(nai)奶(nai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋,他(ta)們(men)生(sheng)(sheng)了個(ge)(ge)(ge)兒(er)子,按照傳(chuan)統習慣,這兒(er)子也就承(cheng)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,我(wo)們(men)姑且(qie)叫他(ta)蔣男(nan)(nan);外(wai)公(gong)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞,外(wai)婆姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他(ta)們(men)生(sheng)(sheng)個(ge)(ge)(ge)女兒(er),也是依照傳(chuan)統,女兒(er)承(cheng)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞我(wo)們(men)姑且(qie)叫她卞女。蔣男(nan)(nan)和卞女后(hou)(hou)來(lai)結(jie)成夫妻(qi),之后(hou)(hou)就生(sheng)(sheng)下一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)男(nan)(nan)孩(hai)。這男(nan)(nan)孩(hai)的(de)(de)(de)出(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)使全家都(dou)很高興(xing),但在(zai)讓孩(hai)子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什(shen)么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)問題上(shang)出(chu)現了分歧。爺(ye)(ye)(ye)爺(ye)(ye)(ye)希望遵從傳(chuan)統承(cheng)其父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣;外(wai)公(gong)認為舊(jiu)習慣應該(gai)破除,最好依母(mu)(mu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞;外(wai)婆則反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞一(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)小的(de)(de)(de)時候被人(ren)(ren)家叫“小卞”,大(da)了被人(ren)(ren)喊作“大(da)卞”,有把年紀(ji)了也不(bu)(bu)過稱個(ge)(ge)(ge)“老(lao)卞”,很不(bu)(bu)雅觀,不(bu)(bu)如來(lai)個(ge)(ge)(ge)徹底的(de)(de)(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外(wai)婆的(de)(de)(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)奶(nai)奶(nai)卻說(shuo),即使從母(mu)(mu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋。全家四(si)(si)個(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都(dou)想讓這惟一(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)(de)男(nan)(nan)孩(hai)為自己的(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接續香(xiang)(xiang)火”。后(hou)(hou)來(lai),他(ta)們(men)覺得(de)“接續香(xiang)(xiang)火”的(de)(de)(de)想法(fa)太(tai)陳舊(jiu),共同商議(yi)孩(hai)子取個(ge)(ge)(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點”。
因為(wei)這個(ge)(ge)字(zi)的結構(gou)是(shi)上邊一個(ge)(ge)占有的占字(zi),底(di)下四點,四點分別代(dai)表(biao)蔣、宋、卞(bian)、沈四位老人(ren)(ren)的姓。對老人(ren)(ren)而言,“點”表(biao)示四姓(家(jia))共同占有這個(ge)(ge)孩子;對孩子來說,“點”表(biao)示占有四姓老人(ren)(ren)的共同關愛。等商定以(yi)后,接(jie)著為(wei)這孩子取名“點佳浩”,并到戶(hu)籍管理部門登記備(bei)案,使他從此有了合法的名字(zi)。
我們知道它是(shi)一個新創(chuang)的(de)姓(xing)(xing)氏。那么,歷(li)史上(shang)有(you)沒有(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)呢?其實是(shi)有(you)的(de),但(dan)與(yu)這個點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)有(you)所(suo)不(bu)(bu)同。歷(li)史上(shang)的(de)點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)繁體(ti),據說《太平圖話姓(xing)(xing)氏綜》上(shang)就(jiu)有(you)收錄。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”字簡化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)它與(yu)內涵“四家共有(you)”的(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”的(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)區別的(de),至少可以說是(shi)姓(xing)(xing)源不(bu)(bu)同。正(zheng)因如此(ci),“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)可寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”卻(que)不(bu)(bu)能(neng)寫(xie)成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”。若(ruo)把(ba)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”寫(xie)成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”,也(ye)就(jiu)把(ba)“四姓(xing)(xing)共有(you)”的(de)美(mei)好愿望改沒了。
歷(li)史上(shang)曾有(you)(you)點(dian)姓(xing),但寫作(zuo)“點(dian)”,據(ju)說《太平(ping)圖話姓(xing)氏綜(zong)》上(shang)就有(you)(you)收錄。后來,“點(dian)”簡化為“點(dian)”,但內涵與“四(si)(si)姓(xing)共有(you)(you)”的(de)“點(dian)佳(jia)浩”的(de)“點(dian)”有(you)(you)區別。“點(dian)”姓(xing)可寫作(zuo)“點(dian)”,“點(dian)佳(jia)浩”卻不(bu)能(neng)寫成(cheng)“點(dian)佳(jia)浩”,不(bu)然“四(si)(si)姓(xing)共有(you)(you)”的(de)美好愿望就沒了(le)。